Her notepad poems:
The Perfect Man Poem

The perfect man

The perfect man, I try to be

Always be there, just you and me

Be by your side, no matter what

Deep in my heart, its you I've got

Life can go wrong, I drive you mad

Last thing I want, to make you sad

So never leave, and say goodbye

No perfect man, but I do try
Dean Thorpe
As part of Section 5 Drummers (The only non drumming member! lol) Dean Thorpe goes out with them taking photos of events, this was at Battle Medieval Festival in 2016, although Dean doesn't drum, he does like to dress like part of Section 5 Drummers!

As ex part of Section 5 Drummers (The only non drumming member! lol) Dean Thorpe went out with them taking photos of events

Breakdown of the poem

The perfect man, I try to be

I personally do not think the perfect man exists, but I will never give up trying! I know I am far from perfect sometimes, but I also know there are a lot worse men than me.

Always be there, just you and me
I promise I will always try to be there and even when I am not, then I know its Yolanda that will be on my brain all day.

Be by your side, no matter what
Whatever life throws at us I hope I will always be with Yolanda. I had a couple of relationships before her, but nobody that ever really mattered like she does!

Deep in my heart, its you I've got
OK, well maybe there is room for two loves in my heart, but apart from Yolanda and Joanne (our daughter) there is no other.

Life can go wrong, I drive you mad
I think most couples drive each other mad sometimes, its part of the fun of being a couple! If everything in life always went exactly to plan, then life would be very boring.

Last thing I want, to make you sad
I know I can be a pain in the bum, I get depressed and moody, but I still always love Yolanda.

So never leave, and say goodbye
To quote Bryan Adams "If you ever leave me, can I come too". Yolanda and Joanne really are my whole life 

No perfect man, but I do try
I will never give up trying to be everything Yolanda wants me to be.

Update:

Well I guess I failed as a few months before our 18th wedding anniversary we sadly split up, we just had too many differences and had drifted apart, I will always love Yolanda, but I am just not in love with her any more. I then went on to relationship with another woman and that went wrong for so many, many reasons!!! :'(

Update to my update!

I'm now back in another relationship and very happy, we have been together a couple of years and it's going REALLY well!!! :) 


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  1. Her notepad poems: Introduction
  2. Her notepad poems: Being free to be me
  3. Her notepad poems: Big metal box
  4. Her notepad poems: Blue lights in the mirror
  5. Her notepad poems: Christmas thoughts
  6. Her notepad poems: Cold and grey in the UK
  7. Her notepad poems: Colours of my life
  8. Her notepad poems: Computers are a pain
  9. Her notepad poems: Concept of happiness
  10. Her notepad poems: Crowds all around me
  11. Her notepad poems: Derailed train of thought
  12. Her notepad poems: Eh Ju Kay Shon
  13. Her notepad poems: Evil people around us
  14. Her notepad poems: Exploring the woods
  15. Her notepad poems: Feel the pain
  16. Her notepad poems: Feeling alone
  17. Her notepad poems: First true love
  18. Her notepad poems: Fluffy little tails
  19. Her notepad poems: Fluidity / genderfluid
  20. Her notepad poems: Free school parking
  21. Her notepad poems: Frozen moment in time
  22. Her notepad poems: Gay Pride
  23. Her notepad poems: Going to Disneyland Paris
  24. Her notepad poems: Hand beside me
  25. Her notepad poems: I hate you
  26. Her notepad poems: Illusion of life
  27. Her notepad poems: Just another dumb animal
  28. Her notepad poems: Just be
  29. Her notepad poems: Life of a photographer
  30. Her notepad poems: Life of a snowflake
  31. Her notepad poems: Light from another world
  32. Her notepad poems: Lurking in the darkness
  33. Her notepad poems: Maybe I am going mad
  34. Her notepad poems: Mindfulness
  35. Her notepad poems: Normality
  36. Her notepad poems: Not going mad this Christmas
  37. Her notepad poems: Opening my mind
  38. Her notepad poems: Out there
  39. Her notepad poems: Passion or prayer
  40. Her notepad poems: Perfect man
  41. Her notepad poems: Psyonic dreams
  42. Her notepad poems: Raindrops on the window
  43. Her notepad poems: Red is the colour of blood
  44. Her notepad poems: Roller coaster rider
  45. Her notepad poems: Second by second
  46. Her notepad poems: Side effect of Doctors
  47. Her notepad poems: Silence closes in
  48. Her notepad poems: Sometimes
  49. Her notepad poems: Some people
  50. Her notepad poems: Storm
  51. Her notepad poems: Strange creatures
  52. Her notepad poems: Stranger beside me
  53. Her notepad poems: Sugar excess
  54. Her notepad poems: Tick and the tock
  55. Her notepad poems: Time flies by
  56. Her notepad poems: Trapped in the Summer
  57. Her notepad poems: Trust in terror media
  58. Her notepad poems: Watching death poem
  59. Her notepad poems: Westwood House
  60. Her notepad poems: When I grow up
  61. Her notepad poems: When munchies attack
  62. Her notepad poems: Why I go to Pride
  63. Her notepad poems: Why me
  64. Her notepad poems: You are my reason